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Does My Child Have Dyslexia?
Ask the Experts: I think my third-grader has dyslexia, but the school doesn't seem to understand the word. How can I get help for my son?
Question: I think that my son may have dyslexia.
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He is in third grade. The school does not acknowledge the word. Can you give me information about dyslexia and how I should go about getting the school to help me?

Answer: Dyslexia is a disorder many of us have heard of, but it can be confusing as to what it actually is. The National Institute of Neurological Disorders and Stroke has a very accessible definition:

"Dyslexia is a brain-based type of learning disability that specifically impairs a person's ability to read. These individuals typically read at levels significantly lower than expected despite having normal intelligence. Although the disorder varies from person to person, common characteristics among people with dyslexia have difficulty with phonological processing (the manipulation of sounds) and/ or rapid visual-verbal responding."

This organization is an excellent resource for further explaining the disorder and they reference current government research projects, as well as other organizations of interest. One such organization is The International Dyslexia Association.

The IDA has educational fact sheets with definitions, links to additional resources, information for parents and students, and advocacy and support groups. These sites can help familiarize you with dyslexia and help you advocate more effectively.

It is possible that your school doesn't use the word "dyslexia" for classifying reading disorders. Different school systems may use different criteria and terminology to qualify children for special education services. Some schools may not test until children reach third grade, because some of the characteristics of dyslexia are common in children from kindergarten to grade two, so it's great that you have begun this process now.

Tell his current teacher and your principal, that you would like to know the procedure for evaluating your child for a learning disability. It can be useful to bring samples of his work, which best illustrates his difficulties, to further explain what you are specifically concerned with.

Debra Collins is a licensed marriage and family therapist. Debra has worked in both primary and middle schools as a school counselor. She gives workshops to teachers and students on a variety of topics concerning youth and families and offers parenting classes and parent coaching to parents throughout the Bay Area. Debra is also a mental health assessor for the San Francisco Unified School District.

Advice from our experts is not a substitute for medical or other professional advice and services from a qualified health-care provider familiar with your unique situation. We recommend consulting a qualified professional if you have concerns about your child's medical or emotional condition.

September 2006

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Comments From GreatSchools.net Users
03/19/2008:
"my 5yea old boy has a problem writing and recognising sounds.HE knows his alphabets and sounds and the numbers too but can not read words or write anything just doase not wish to hold a pencil. can any one suggest some ways to help him write and develop his motor skills. he has a good grip- he can hold a spoon and eat very neatly but only writing is a problem."

02/13/2008:
" Hi, where do I go to get my child tested? His school said he will grow out of it. He is in the third grade. Thanks"

02/5/2008:
"I have a 6yr old little angel. She has so much trouble pointing out her numbers and letters, but she can say her abc's and can count to 40. However when I ask her to point out the letter or number she cannot. Any suggestions any one? I'm in need of advice. thanks "

08/9/2007:
"Public schools in CA are not required by law to test for dyslexia, so they don't. They are only required to test for eligibility for special education. There is a critical and serious difference. Many schools refuse to use the word dyslexia and refuse to use best practices for remediation specifically for dyslexia, even tough it is required by law. "

09/25/2006:
"I think it is extremely important to have an evaluation done outside of school if dyslexia is suspected. Dyslexia can be diagnosed well before a child gets to third grade. The sooner the diagnosis is made, the sooner the child can get help. Often school evaluations do not diagnose dyslexia."

09/19/2006:
"Parents should be aware that gifted dyslexic children do not always show reading problems. Our gifted dyslexic son reads above grade level so we were told he 'could not' be dyslexic. Please check out http://mislabeledchild.com/html/Library/DyslexiaReading/Stealth_dyslexia.htm and the new book The Mislabeled Child. Good luck!"

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